And he needs to trust his instincts if he thinks she's being dishonest. For me this has been an opportunity to increase my love, tolerance, compassion and acceptance. The views expressed herein do not necessarily represent the position of the Church. Sometimes I think I'II get crazy or dipressed.
What if love is looking someone in the eye and saying, "You're making the biggest mistake of your life. That desire that they be someone other than who they were when they married you is toxic to a relationship. Marriage is meant to be eternal.
He puts no effort forth toward our marriage - he has no time or energy to do so. If you are dating a Mormon man or woman, be genuinely interested in their religion. You will only have a happy relationship if either you both believe in the Mormon Church, or both do not believe. If you are an atheist or a non-believer, then let your date know, and politely decline the invitation. You need to disabuse them of this notion. Plus there's a lot of things we didn't get taught growing up that are slowly coming out through the Internet.
If she is full on Mormon, this relationship will go one of two ways: You will convert and change your entire lifestyle and personality to conform with her expectations never to deconvert or you will face severe penalitesor you will break up because you won't convert and change everything about yourself. I am trying so hard to be understanding but the time when I could discuss my fears with him are well and truly gone. I have been pretty much a single mother most of that time.