Without going into too much personal detail, I received a very real, strong prompting that I should marry this girl. Maybe if I met him at another point in time, things would have worked with us. I know a non-Mormon guy who married a Mormon woman and has kept her beautiful and desirable, by encouraging her religious involvement, even though he avoided Mormonism himself. No one knows your situation the way you do. I let her know I'd been reading on LDS. Aw, glad I can help. Look up all the threads of people who are dealing with their true believing spouses -- the guilt, the silence, the bad communication, the hostage-taking. I hate to say it, but if you are serious, go explore her world. Harmony will prevail if the husband appreciates the value of church service and attendance. The history of racism and violence is upsetting.
I'm on mobile and it isn't letting me post the URL. Marriage is serious business and we are in it together despite our spouses shortcomings. And if you do belong to a ward full of cretins, you must do everyone a favor and just ignore them until they go extinct. You really don't know how great you have it. Never marry someone with the goal of a post-marriage conversion. Because you are a good person, you will recognize the influence of the Holy Ghost and know that the church is true. If you can't, then it's best to move on. She is now happy with her uber-Mormon boyfriend and I am happily dating other people as well. Instructions can be found here: Posted by Your Doctor's Wife at 2: September 6, at 3: Marianne April 28, at 8: Anonymous September 21, at Anonymous October 19, at 9: Anonymous May 3, at 5: Anonymous November 24, at 2: Anonymous January 13, at 8: A must-read every morning.
I would leave him note reminding him how important his work was. I'm pointing this out because I don't know her and couldn't tell you what to expect. You would be her back up plan in case she can't find a guy who is a returned missionary, preferably from a prominent LDS family. His dad and siblings are also doctors, hence his mom is quite use to the idea of being alone and independent. I met my wife at the age of She literally showed up at my apartment one night, wholly unexpected.
Physical and logistic issues make the "wonderful ideas and alternative ideas "impossible. For the official Church websites, please visit LDS. Again, reading your blog definitely opened up my eyes to many things I was totally oblivious to. He just started studying for the boards. There are a million fish in the sea and it makes no sense to choose one with whom you are not religiously compatible. In response to the anonymous comment posted April 3, I am not married but have been dating a medical student for about four years, he is in his second year of residency and it has honestly been difficult because when he graduated medical school he had to move five hours away to start his residency program so we travel back and forth and our relationship is serious but im scared that things will never get better as far as his busy schedule, even when im there to visit he is on call and im basically on a mini vacation by myself. If you do believe it fully, are you not really going to want him to make the conversion ultimately. He will always downplay it.