Did he get kicked out of the church for marrying you. If I just assume he won't be home to eat dinner with us, it's a happy surprise when he is. Initially I thought he would join the church and life would get back on the only track I knew.
She's already past her prime in the Mormon dating market. He hasn't proposed and instead of saving for a ring he is going to use the money to travel to go to his friend's wedding. After his mission he lost faith on everything for some reasons. Mormonism is a religion that's as manipulative as it is comforting. Trust me, I too tried to make it work with my very Mormon also returned missionary ex-girlfriend. Sorry dude, she is in way to deep. I learned to read by reading the Book of Mormon. Am I that woman. It's a great idea to know where you stand so that you'll be prepared when this comes up in conversation. Seek advice, and like the chick said, talk and talk and talk untill its all sorted out in your mind, and in his.
I wanted to be able to fully share my faith with my spouse, but this expectation was now up in the air. As for having children, expect to be a single parent. It's unfair to assume that she feels that way without asking her. Today, at my ward sacrament meeting, in the back section of the chapel where I was sitting, all the women except one were Mormon wives in interfaith families. The standard principles of day game apply. Sometimes I seat and think how we can make this work when both of us have career aspirations I am trying to find a tenure-track position close to my husband this year, and I just keep my fingers crossed that I can do that. And yes, some people are unbelievably stupid about it. She wants the captain of a ship who can direct all aspects of a relationship, including spiritual direction.
I would have been deeply insulted if anyone talked about me the way people are talking about this girl He needs to tell her there is a no chance he will convert, that he is not comfortable with his children being raised Mormon if he isn'tthat she cannot ever expect a temple marriage with him. It's what I agnostic atheist exmo do with my girlfriend reasonable TBM. Maybe you do, too.