I get to spend my life with someone who was not raised on fear and guilt and strict gender roles. I don't want to advocate manipulation but asking questions concerning Joseph's dishonesty about polygamy to his first wife and his marriage of other men's wives and marriage of a 14 year old may prove more fruitful than just saying wow polygamy is messed up. Really, I'm interested in this too. March 18, Run for the hills.
I hope it all works out for you. Honestly I'd let things keep going. She wants the captain of a ship who can direct all aspects of a relationship, including spiritual direction. I wish you the best of luck. She seems to be ok with that, and wants to continue our relationship, and also talks about wanting marriage and children, and raising those children to be mormon like her even if I'm not religious. You aren't engaged or married or anything, you can't just know that she won't see the light and remain crazy Mormon forever. Consider yourself above many things. Early in our relationship, I gave some thought to the question of whether I would ever be willing to marry a non-Mormon. If you stay together l, you are going to have to remind her of that commitment. That being said, there are some facets of the religion that you should be aware of that will influence how she approaches both you and the relationship.
If you shift his way, be prepared for the social costs of inactivityвplus, if you really believe the doctrine, a crisis of faith. Cookies make wikiHow better. There will always be difference between spouses. If they are, run to the altar, in or out of the temple. Mormonism is a big thing for those who follow the faith, so Sundays and the occasional event depending on how much she does extra might distract her.
But I loved this girl more than anything in life. I always felt guilty for feeling bored, depressed or anxious about spending so much time apart from him, but thanks all, for making me realize that I am not alone. He wanted our kids exposed to Christianity for intellectual reasons and likes the community. My First and only Blind Date in Japan. Help answer questions Learn more. I'm so glad we waited until now instead of jumping into it right then, because I have learned a ton and the learning curve of being with a doctor is far more steep than it is to be with someone who is not married to their job. Joanna has written a good answer here.