I also know that my husband's job as a Surgeon is before us my kids and I. Yes, talk talk talk about everything yoiu can think of, but beyond that I would suggest pre-marital counseling from people knowledgeable in each tradition at play this will probably take two different counselors, who might be faith-based. Joanna в this is one of your best. Observe the suttle loony behavior of the family during thanksgiving. It's like talking to a wall. That's all she thought about for 18 months, plus the months leading up to it, and winding down.
I hope it all works out for you. But, as soon as the marriage happened, the Mormon spouse goes full on Orthodox and expects the non Mormon to comply. Racial differences can be very trivialвthey really didn't come up much for my parents, for exampleвand are basically false differences.
There are so many potential problems they would fill a book. Thank you so much for your comment. Can anyone suggest specific talking points from content on LDS. But, you will probably lose.
Learn all you can. We would have a movie night at his apartment on a Saturday night and the next few days would be great. Better than freezing up and avoiding them altogether. If you shift his way, be prepared for the social costs of inactivityвplus, if you really believe the doctrine, a crisis of faith. Totally hated it too. When she had a strict 6: If there was a disagreement, one person was supposed to submit to the other, consult a rulebook that covered almost everything, or turn to a church leader to decide for them. Mormonism is a big thing for those who follow the faith, so Sundays and the occasional event depending on how much she does extra might distract her. Some of the guests talked about the importance of helping hard core mormons to be open and accepting to ALL their brothers and sisters in the church, regardless of sexual orientation. I would not have wanted to be dismissed as crazy and unworthy of attention when I was still a member, because it wouldn't have been true. My husband is midway throug his first year of cardiology fellowship and we have been having a tough time lately.