I'm a Mormon girl in love with an amazing non-Mormon man. Like many single members of the church, I have often wondered whether I would be willing to marry someone outside of the temple, and over the past few years I have come to believe that I would be willing to do so. What upsets me most is that he didn't realize it was my birthday, or a big one and then that his reaction was to get defensive about his plans rather than offer an alternative for celebrating with me. I'm going to disagree with what some of the people have said. We started dating the summer before medical shool.
Most mormon girls look at guys like you as a project and that they have a lifetime to work on the project. Like Suha, I have also been married almost 28 years and have done pretty much everything myself for so, so long. And generally those people seem to have great difficulty in breaking off the relationship, even though they are told that it is a dead-end situation that will cause them big trouble in the future. The closet is deep though I think that's seriously generalizing. As a parent, we hope our children will make life choices that will give them the greatest chance of happiness.
But equally, does this mean you will have to sanction what you do, say and watch regarding Mormonism. Good luck to both of you on working this out, and if you decide that interfaith marriage is something you can handle and your gentlemen turn out to be the right men for you, then welcome to the club. He would be leaving his career, something he has worked so hard for and his passion for his family. IE в the comment about not having a husband to give priesthood blessings, etc. You should want to keep things new and interesting, as you would in any relationship, while still allowing your date to maintain the standards of her faith. Yes, thank you for your support Autumn. I also know that my husband's job as a Surgeon is before us my kids and I. After a lot of thought during that relationship with a non-Mormon, I laid out exactly what struggles I was probably going to face: I was worried about my own faith.
There are many great and wonderful people in the church, and the real evil about the church is that it harms those great and wonderful people. My experience has been that personal similarities and differences are a bigger element than cultural differences. January 17, February 18, Spending time with this guy is hard to come by.