Day 2 in the NLP Neuro Linguistic Programming program begins with a powerful incantation en-grained in our minds by our trainer and guru, Arslan Larik. I start my day and a big session by reciting this incantation. People often mix incantations with affirmations. Affirmations are positive self-talk, which may or may not be said out loud. Incantations are supposed to be said out loud. One would begin feeling that the incantation has awakened the dormant desires of transforming ourselves using our own strengths. That is when we come to a realization that good communication and building lasting relationships is what would lift us higher.
We call it Fear…
Start Your Magnificent Life Each Day
We sit and think of all the things we want to do, to have, to be, sometime, sometime in the future. We sit and imagine how good it will feel when… and at some level we get excited and start to look forward to the adventure. We gradually creep towards the edge of change, we tiptoe, peering over to see if we can see what the result would be like, how long the journey would be, how successful it would be. But as we are lured closer to the edge by the hallucinations of success, we suddenly feel a pull from behind. Like someone is holding us by a reign, holding us back, keeping us safe from tipping over the edge into the unknown. We must leap from the edge into the unknown and to do that we must change our Fear to Faith. Faith that the net will appear, faith that something bigger than us, something that loves and cares for us even more than that over cautious parent, has got our back. We must get to that edge and…. And so they came.
1. Change the Way You Move to Change the Way You Feel
Tony Robbins has a specific startup-routine that he uses to condition his mind, body, and emotions to bring out his best on a daily basis. Tony Robbins focuses on fulfillment over achievement. The point is to enjoy the journey. The key to fulfillment is gratitude. Starting your day the Tony Robbins way, can set yourself up for a life that is magnificent. You can storm through your toughest limitations.
He states that if he is making such a tremendously better income, it would be selfish of me to put our children in daycare in the future so I can work. We tried discussing his list a few times, but it only ended in arguments. It was not just frustrating but also saddening and stressful. It is also considered disrespectful to others, as they may be uncomfortable because of your open displays. You will have to convert and betray your ideals to keep the relationship alive. And no one has the right to judge you for your decision.